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30 Day challenge day seventeen


Day 17 – Find three things that allow you to relax.

#1 comes first

Last:

Saturdays


30 day challenge day seven


Day 7 – Create a goal that you can achieve within three days and why it is important.

  My 3 day goal is to get my basement clean. It might be a simple one but its really got a lot more to it that it might seem. It means cleaning my room, cleaning my bathroom, cleaning Nicole’s room, and cleaning the cats room. Yes my cats have a room… its mostly kitty litter boxes. I put off cleaning it because I am allergic and end up feeling totally miserable afterwards. Yeah I know I should not even have cats if I am allergic but I do anyways. I have always been stubborn like that 😉 I need to do it badly because since I have started working I have neglected it.

Hopefully it will be a goal I can stick to and not be too tired to do it when I get home.

                       3rd and final in the set

30 day blog challenge day five


Day 5 – Define what is important to you in terms of a significant relationship.

Well there are many things that make a relationship significant to me. Number one, is trust.. not really that they can trust in me, but that I can trust in them. It feels so selfish of me to say that, but its very true. I am confident in the person I am and that I can show someone I am trustworthy but its not always the case with others. (When I say these things I am talking about all relationships, not just marital/ sexual ones) Number two, I believe is kindness. If you give someone as much kindness as possible and all you get in return is attitude or spite, I’m going to want to return in the same way. Not that I try to.. it just happens. I am a huge fan of the phrase “treat others the way you want to be treated” and I stand by it. If I am treated with disrespect, I will return disrespect.. or at least no longer expect you to respect me. The third thing I think is important is that this person is willing to work with you through any tough times that may come their way. I am not a huge fan of weak hearted people because I am not one myself. I need strong people in my life because weakness only brings me down.

In a personal relationship, like mine and David’s, it is important that we are able to communicate. Even if something comes up that were frustrated about either with each other or with other people, we are able to talk about it and get past it. Talking and thinking things through TOGETHER is key. If there is only one side to the relationship it is doomed to fail.

 

                                                                                 2 Aprils ago..

30 day blog challenge day three


Day 3 – Discuss what is holding you back from embracing change.

Ahh the topic of change. Honestly, I have had more problems embracing change in the past an I do now. All my life is, is change. I don’t  think there was a single year or moment that I wasn’t contemplating some sort of change  or needing to change something. (I hate my keyboard at home for example. Its wireless and the connection sucks! I need an old school-connects to the computer- keyboard) Over the past year my life has evolved from a tiny bud to a field of flowers.. simply by embracing change and allowing my life to go where it needs to go. Basically I have done the most changing in the past year than I have done my whole life. People have come in and out of it, custody of my child was taken from me, I lost a job and found a job… and many other things you will learn about in the next 27 days. Change isn’t just Obama’s’ slogan, its a way of life and if you don’t embrace change, what are you living for?

Mis Gatos!


AHhhh so inspiration comes in many ways… and shapes… and sizes. I introduce you all to MAGIK! THE MAGIK! The runner of the show.. my kitty beautiful man.

I honestly cannot say that I have ever loved a cat more than Magik. He’s awesome, like a tiny person! He has such a personality and if you met him you would for sure agree.. even if you don’t like cats..

I also took some of Zeppelin, Magiks lover.. I mean papa. He pretty much raised Magik from kittenhood. Zep is my sisters Kat.

My mom requested I grab a few of Mase, her cat, as he is getting old.. 14years to be exact, and she wants some good memory photos of him.

Here is the full list of photos. Hope you enjoy!

My Simple Man


Come sit beside me, my oldest son
And listen closely to what I say
And if you do this it’ll help you some sunny day

Oh, take your time don’t live too fast
Troubles will come and they will pass
Go find a woman you’ll find love
And don’t forget son there is someone up above

And be a simple kind of man
Be something you love and understand
Baby be a simple kind of man
Oh, won’t you do this for me son if you can?

Forget your lust for the rich man’s gold
All that you need is in your soul
And you can do this, oh baby, if you try
All that I want for you my son is to be satisfied

And be a simple kind of man
Be something you love and understand
Baby be a simple kind of man
Oh, won’t you do this for me son if you can?

Boy, don’t you worry you’ll find yourself
Follow your heart and nothing else
And you can do this, oh baby, if you try
All that I want for you my son is to be satisfied

And be a simple kind of man
Be something you love and understand
Baby be a simple kind of man
Oh, won’t you do this for me son if you can?

Baby be a simple, be a simple man
Be something you love and understand
Baby be a simple kind of man

My adaptation of Simple man by Lynyrd Skynyrd

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